Saturday, September 12, 2009

Cupcake frenzy

The kitchen looked like this

but the fridge looked like this!

It was Reid Justin's (oldest son) birthday yesterday and I wanted to do something special for his housewarming/birthday party. So I searched the net and found three bakeshop style cupcake recipes. They all sounded so delicious that I decided that mini was the way to go. That way no one would have to choose just one flavor.

Here they are!

Sprinkles Cupcakes' Strawberry Cupcakes from - this recipe link even has videos!

Banana Cupcakes with Honey-Cinnamon Frosting at - my favorite and I made them slightly healthier by replacing half the melted butter with oil

Meyer Lemon Raspberry Cupcakes at

The secret - homemade lemon curd filling - so good!

Don't they look fun? Can you see the bee that zoomed by just as I snapped the picture?

The new house is very modern - so I couldn't see using a fussy cupcake stand. The solution? Cedar planks (for grilling salmon)

I think it works

Sylie and Cooper approve

The party was great!

Popular local band, Hello Helicopter came to play - Jamie (youngest son) just happens to be lead singer

Fans - Jenny (daughter) , Jason and Mason

Happy Birthday Justin!

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Out my door

My desk is in our family room/library/kitchen/eating area (great room?). It faces glass doors, which face our deck, which faces the mountains - so I am occasionally entertained by a parade of wildlife.

Here's today's view

a young deer and a covey of quail (I looked that word up on this fun site)

Our poor neglected garden really needs some work!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Sunday dinner

I like to give the kids an occasional break from cooking - so I have decided to do Sunday dinner for everyone once a month. Last week, I was inspired by an Oprah magazine article I came across with pictures of a Jennifer Aniston party. It looked terribly healthy and that is a MUST for my family. I don't know quite how, but Reid and I raised up a generation of health food addicts - and amazing cooks.  I remember asking Justin, when he was barely old enough to speak, "what's your favorite food?" Response: "Broccy" (broccoli).

So this wonderfully healthy, Mexican inspired party spread looked perfect for my first post-mission try.

Here's what I cooked:

Cavolo Nero and Red Cabbage Tostadas with Spicy Shrimp

Refreshing Salad of Oranges, Cotija Cheese, and Cara Cara Vinaigrette

Grilled Tomat0 Gazpacho

Mushroom Quesadillas on Whole Wheat Tortillas

The successful results:


We grilled some chicken for the kiddies

This orange salad was fabulous! My favorite thing? the toasted pumpkin seeds

Mushroom quesadillas


James and Henry thought it was pretty amazing

James? Henry? on the right is focused on getting food to mouth. His brother however....

...was more interested in food to floor

What to do after a big meal? Work it off - with a little help

"Weighted" lunges

"Resistance" push ups

Food, family and fun - perfect!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Lehi's Dream

There's something special about symbolic scripture stories - they seem to teach on multiple levels and across varying circumstances.

Lehi's vision (1 Nephi 8) is both inspired and symbolic so it's rich in revelation potential. Each time I study it I learn something new. During our mission, we spent an entire mission tour of four-hour zone conferences pondering, discussing and analyzing this vision. I think it was one of our most powerful spiritual experiences. Every time I mention that conference to one of the returned missionaries they say it was their favorite.

(Boom des Levens = Tree of Life in Dutch - painted by Elder Koenen)

We chose Lehi's dream as the theme of our staycation.


With the missionaries, we started our study by having them write down an answer to the question, "what keeps you up at night?" That's probably not a great question for missionaries since they rarely have trouble falling asleep. But they were able to identify their pressing questions, write them down and, in the process of the conference, many were blessed with answers through personal revelation.

In our family gathering, we asked the question: What can we do to keep our family spiritually safe and happy?

Taking questions to the scriptures and then continuing to develop questions while studying is, for me, a key to personal revelation.

So this description will be mostly questions - with just a few answers.


We started by slowing down, reading carefully, and identifying what happened each step of the way

First - Lehi's experience, step by step (1 Ne 8:4-18)

  • saw a dark and dreary wilderness

  • man in a robe came to him

  • invited Lehi to follow him

  • found himself in a dark and dreary waste

  • traveled many hours in darkness

  • prayed

  • saw a tree whose fruit was desirable for happiness

  • went forth and ate the fruit

  • found it was most sweet and white

  • filled his soul with joy

  • wanted his family to partake

  • beckoned and called them with a loud voice

  • some came, some did not

Questions that came up

  1. Why did Lehi have to spend hours in darkness?

  2. What helped him escape the darkness?

  3. What does the fruit represent? (see 1 Nephi 11:8-22)

  4. Why did he stay positioned at the tree instead of leaving to go get his family?

  5. What is the significance of beckoning and calling? How are they different?

  6. What can we learn about a father's role from Lehi's experience?

One answer that struck me

The tree represents the love of God through the gift of his Son (see 1 Nephi 11) and the fruit can be a symbol for the Atonement. So as I considered why Lehi didn't go get his family, I realized the most important thing he could do for them was to stay close to the tree himself. He told them the way (called in a loud voice) and showed them the way (beckoned). But he didn't leave. So what do I need to do as a parent and grandparent to keep my family safe? The same thing. Receive the blessings of the Atonement in my life and then, by teachings and example, help my family receive those same blessings.

Elder Eyring often teaches about helping others come closer to Christ.  He said, "To begin with, you recognize that what people choose to do, and what the Savior has done, will matter more than what you do. But there are things you can do to make it more likely that they will make the choices that will move them toward eternal life (To Touch a Life with Faith, Henry B Eyring, To Draw Closer to God, p 183-191)."

Here are some of those "things you can do" according to Elder Eyring:

"You can help with your example. If you love them because you feel God's love for them, they will feel that. If you are meek and humble because you feel your dependence on God, they will sense that, too. In addition to your example, you can teach the word of God to them in a way that is more likely to give them a desire to repent and to try to live it. They may think they have heard preaching enough. But they must do more than hear the word of God; they must plant it in their hearts by trying it. You can make that more likely if you talk with them about it in a way that helps them feel how much God loves them and how much they need God (To Touch a Life with Faith, Henry B Eyring, To Draw Closer to God, p 183-191)."

Isn't that just what Lehi did?

A picture I love

"And it came to pass that I did go forth and partake of the fruit thereof; and I beheld that it was most sweet, above all that I ever before tasted. Yea, and I beheld that the fruit thereof was white, to exceed all the whiteness that I had ever seen. And as I partook of the fruit thereof it filled my soul with exceedingly great joy" (1 Ne 8:11-12)

Can't you just feel the sweetness of the fruit?

Sometimes I think about this image during the sacrament ordinance.


We did the next part of our step by step analysis by identifying what happened to each of the four groups of people identified in Lehi's dream.

  • group 1 - verses 21-23

  • group 2 - verses 24-28

  • group 3 - verse 30 and the last part of verse 33

  • group 4 - verses 31-32

We ended up with a chart on the board that looked something like this (click to see larger):

Now the fun starts!

We asked questions like these:

  • What is the same among the groups?

  • What is different?

  • Is there anything unique to group 3 that would explain why they were able to stay at the tree?

Different ideas came up every time.

A few things that I keep thinking about

1) Three out of four groups pressed forward towards the tree. Most people in this world are seeking for something. "For there are many yet on the earth among all sects, parties, and denominations, who are blinded by the subtle craftiness of men, whereby they lie in wait to deceive, and who are only kept from the truth because they know not where to find it (D&C 123: 12)" Isn't missionary work important? The tree is there - we just need to help others find the way.

2) Holding the rod, representing the word of God, is essential but not sufficient for us to stay stong. The quality of that holding process was different between group 2, who looked around right after eating the fruit, felt ashamed and fell away and group 3, who didn't heed the mocking.

So what is the difference between 'clinging' and 'continually holding fast'?

Here's an image that represents 'clinging' to me

It's kind of like holding on for dear life!

On of our sons admitted that he was reading the scriptures in that way - leaving it to the end of the day, rushing through, doing it out of duty - that's clinging.

For some reason, when I picture 'continually holding fast' I think football

He's certainly not clinging! Go BYU - Saturday against Oklahoma!

3) Only group 3 'fell down' before partaking of the fruit. What does that mean? And how does it relate to staying strong?

We found a number of instances in the scriptures when people fell down. Here's one:

"And now, it came to pass that when king Benjamin had made an end of speaking the words which had been delivered unto him by the angel of the Lord, that he cast his eyes round about on the multitude, and behold they had fallen to the earth, for the fear of the Lord had come upon them (Mosiah 4:1)."

'Falling down' seems to represent an attitude of reverence. I wonder if 'continually holding fast' to the word fosters falling down.   I'm not sure - but I certainly want my family to 'fall down' before the tree. I need to spend more time studying what it means to fall down.

Here's a wonderful Minerva Teichert (one of my favorite Church artists) painting of 'falling down'

That's probably enough of my own thoughts. Answers to questions are there just waiting to be discovered. Studying Lehi's dream  blessed our missionary friends and hopefully, will help our family always stay close to the tree.

One more thing - a great follow up study to Lehi's dream is Alma 32. If we do the right things, we can have a tree within us! Just like Lehi in this wood carving:

"But if ye will nourish the word, yea, nourish the tree as it beginneth to grow, by your faith with great diligence, and with patience, looking forward to the fruit thereof, it shall take root; and behold it shall be a tree springing up unto everlasting life.

And because of your diligence and your faith and your patience with the word in nourishing it, that it may take root in you, behold, by and by ye shall pluck the fruit thereof, which is most precious, which is sweet above all that is sweet, and which is white above all that is white, yea, and pure above all that is pure; and ye shall feast upon this fruit even until ye are filled, that ye hunger not, neither shall ye thirst.

Then, my brethren, ye shall reap the rewards of your faith, and your diligence, and patience, and long-suffering, waiting for the tree to bring forth fruit unto you (Alma 32:41-43)."

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Like grandmother like grandaughter?

I guess certain things can skip a generation.

I was a huge animal lover as a child. Unfortunately I lived in an apartment most of my life so dogs and cats were out but I had a series of hamster and gerbil pets. I got my first (bachelor's) degree in zoology and my job throughout high school and college was as a zookeeper at Brookfield Zoo in Chicago. I used to tell the missionaries that nothing could have prepared me better for missionary service in the West Indies. The huge spiders and occasional snakes did not bother me at all (ok maybe sometimes they did - especially when one of those spiders appeared on my wall late at night when my husband was a thousand miles away).  I remember visiting an old fort in St Vincent with some elders. I walked off to explore and then noticed my husband yelling my name. I turned to him just in time to see a large snake zoom between my feet. I guess he had startled it and the frightened snake took off my way. First impression? to chase after and see what kind it was.

So - it was fun to see this picture of my granddaughter Grace

She had looked through one of my old photo albums a few weeks ago and seen this:

And was so excited to be just like Grandma!

She is quite a little animal lover - especially reptiles. She was fascinated by my 'lizard taming' demo when she and her family visited us in Tobago last year.

Here's the secret - Capture a lizard (the hardest part) and then rub its stomach gently for a minute or two. It will relax and go into some sort of a trance - quite impressive to grandchildren.

It's so much fun being a GRANDMA!